Announcing Your Baby’s Arrival Through Surrogacy

Announcing the birth of your baby is always a joyful milestone. Traditionally, birth announcements feature photos of the newborn along with details like weight, length, and time of birth. But how do you share the news when your baby is born through surrogacy? Here are some meaningful ways to announce your little one’s arrival.

Photoshoots are a wonderful way to visually share your surrogacy journey. These can include just the intended parents or both the parents and the surrogate. Including your surrogate can be a beautiful way to honor the journey and create a keepsake your child will cherish someday.

Another beloved tradition is the gender reveal party, and this celebration is absolutely possible when welcoming a baby through surrogacy. Inviting your surrogate can strengthen your bond and help you feel even more connected to your baby. Some families choose to combine a gender reveal with a baby shower—a festive opportunity to celebrate the pregnancy and introduce your surrogate to loved ones.

If large gatherings feel too overwhelming or impersonal, consider sharing the news through a quiet, intimate conversation with close family and friends. Choose a comfortable setting, like your home, where everyone can speak freely. Be prepared for questions, as your loved ones may be curious about the surrogacy process. These personal conversations often ease concerns and create a supportive environment for everyone involved.

While many doctors suggest waiting until 12 weeks to make a pregnancy announcement—when miscarriage risks decrease—intended parents using surrogacy often choose to wait even longer. Some prefer to share the news halfway through the pregnancy, while others wait until their baby arrives to make a public announcement. You can still inform close loved ones early in the journey and then celebrate more broadly once your baby is born.

Ultimately, this is your story, and only you can decide how and when to share it. Inclusive Surrogacy supports you in celebrating your baby’s arrival in the way that feels most meaningful to you.