How to Prepare to Become a Surrogate Mother in 2025

Choosing to become a surrogate is one of the most generous and life-changing decisions you can make. Not only do you help create a family, but you also receive meaningful compensation and the unique experience of giving the gift of life.

In 2025, with compassionate support and streamlined processes, the surrogacy journey is more empowering than ever—and we’re here to guide you through every step.

Start Your Surrogacy Journey with Confidence

From understanding the requirements to making lifestyle adjustments and preparing emotionally, we’ve outlined everything you need to know to begin this incredible journey.

Ready to change a life—maybe even your own? Take the first step by applying today and see if you qualify to become a surrogate.

Step 1: Review the Requirements to Qualify

Before beginning, it’s important to ensure you meet the basic criteria. Requirements can vary by agency, but most include:

• Age between 21 and 40 years old

• A healthy BMI and overall good physical health

• At least one successful, full-term pregnancy

• Actively raising your own child

• No major complications in previous pregnancies

• No tattoos or piercings in the past 12 months

• Off antidepressants or similar medications for at least one year

Meeting these guidelines helps ensure the safety and well-being of both you and the intended baby.

Step 2: Understand the Commitment

Surrogacy is a long-term journey, typically lasting 12 to 18 months. That includes medical evaluations, fertility treatments, the pregnancy itself, and recovery.

Make sure you’re able to commit the necessary time and energy. Consider your current responsibilities at work and home—and whether you can remain in one location throughout the process.

Need help planning ahead? Speak with a surrogacy coordinator to map out your timeline and get personalized guidance.

Step 3: Prepare for Work and Financial Planning

Think about how surrogacy will impact your job. Some employers provide maternity leave—others may not.

The good news? Your surrogacy compensation can include coverage for lost wages, childcare, and more. We’ll help ensure your contract includes everything you need to stay financially secure during your journey.

Pro tip: Talk to your HR department early to understand your company’s maternity policies and discuss your plans if needed.

Step 4: Have an Honest Conversation with Your Family

Your support system plays a vital role. Talk openly with your partner, children, and close family about what surrogacy involves, emotionally and practically.

When your loved ones are onboard and informed, the journey becomes smoother for everyone—especially you.

Step 5: Prioritize Your Health and Wellbeing

A healthy body and mind are essential for a successful surrogacy journey. Start developing healthy habits now to prepare for pregnancy and give your intended parents the best possible outcome.

Here are some wellness tips to get you started:

• Take prenatal vitamins

• Reduce or eliminate alcohol and caffeine

• Incorporate gentle exercises like yoga or walking

• Focus on a balanced, nutrient-rich diet

• Seek emotional support from a mental health counselor

• Connect with a surrogacy specialist for tailored advice

  
  

Building a strong foundation now sets you up for success later.

Step 6: Get Clear on Legal and Financial Details

Surrogates can earn between $60,000 to $100,000, depending on location and experience. This includes base compensation, medical reimbursements, and other agreed-upon expenses.

We’ll walk you through the legal agreements that outline each party’s responsibilities and rights. Our goal is to make sure you feel secure and fully informed—every step of the way.

Have questions about compensation? Reach out to our team to learn more about how much you could earn.

Why Surrogacy is Truly Worth It

Helping another family grow is a profound experience—one that brings joy, purpose, and pride. As a surrogate, you're not just making someone’s dream come true—you’re making a real difference in the world.

If you’re ready to take the first step toward a fulfilling and empowering surrogacy journey in 2025, contact us today or visit our website www.inclusivesurrogacy.com and let’s start this beautiful path together.