What to Expect at Prenatal Doctor Visits as a Surrogate

As a surrogate, those first prenatal appointments can feel both exciting and a little overwhelming. You’re carrying someone else’s child, which comes with a unique mix of responsibility, coordination, and care. Understanding what to expect during these visits can help you feel more confident and prepared throughout the journey.

Early Appointments: Extra Monitoring

In the beginning, you’ll likely have more frequent visits than in a typical pregnancy since you’ll still be under the care of a fertility clinic. These early check-ins often include bloodwork, ultrasounds, and medication monitoring to confirm the pregnancy is progressing well. Around 8–12 weeks, once things are stable, your care usually transitions to a regular OB/GYN.

Plenty of Questions

Your doctor will want a clear picture of your health and well-being—physically and emotionally. Expect conversations about medications, supplements, nutrition, and any side effects you may notice. Being open and honest helps ensure you get the best care possible.

Routine Tests and Monitoring

Throughout the pregnancy, you’ll have regular screenings such as blood pressure checks, urine samples, weight monitoring, and fetal heart rate tracking. These routine steps help protect both your health and the baby’s, with any concerns addressed promptly.

Working with Intended Parents

Many intended parents like to be involved, whether by attending appointments in person, joining virtually, or receiving updates afterward. Talking openly about everyone’s expectations early on helps create a smooth experience for all.

Your Voice Matters

Remember, you are the one carrying the baby—your comfort and care are just as important as the intended parents’ hopes. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, share concerns, or request more support from your doctor if needed.

Ultimately, prenatal visits are about reassurance, guidance, and keeping both you and the baby healthy. Every appointment is one step closer to a safe delivery and the incredible gift you’re helping to bring into the world. If you have any questions at any point in your surrogacy journey, our team is here to support you.