What to Get Your Surrogate This Holiday Season

Intended parents often wonder what kinds of gifts are appropriate for their surrogates. While presents are never required or expected, many IPs enjoy expressing their gratitude with small, meaningful gestures—especially during the holiday season.

When Inclusive Surrogacy matches a surrogate with intended parents, we provide a “favorites” list to help you get to know her better. This guide can make choosing thoughtful gifts much easier and more personal.

Here are some meaningful gift ideas for your surrogate:

• Prenatal massages – A wonderful way to ease pregnancy-related discomfort and help her relax.

• A pregnancy comfort or “survival” box – Consider items like cozy slippers, soothing lotions, a plush blanket, candles, or other pampering essentials.

• Meal prep or food delivery gift cards – Services like HelloFresh, DoorDash, or UberEats can offer convenience during pregnancy. If she’s not on bed rest, a gift card to her favorite restaurant can give her and her family a night out.

• Handmade gifts – Personalized, handmade items are always meaningful and show a thoughtful touch.

• Small gifts for her children – A little something for her kids can help them feel included and appreciated during the journey.

  
  

Remember, gifts are not the heart of the holiday season. The most valuable gift you can offer is genuine connection—taking the time to check in, visit, and share in how she’s feeling throughout this incredible experience.