The Surrogate’s Guide to Ultrasounds

If you’re on a surrogacy journey, you’ve probably already experienced a few ultrasounds. Whether this is your very first pregnancy or you’ve been through it before, ultrasounds in surrogacy carry a special meaning. They’re not just a way to check on the baby’s development—they’re also an opportunity to keep intended parents informed, reassured, and connected throughout the process.

Here’s what you can expect when it comes to ultrasounds during surrogacy:

Early Ultrasounds: Confirming the Pregnancy

In the first few weeks after embryo transfer, the fertility clinic will schedule an ultrasound to confirm that the pregnancy has taken hold. This usually happens around 6 to 8 weeks and is often performed transvaginally. While it may be a bit uncomfortable, the appointment is quick—and important. You may even hear the baby’s heartbeat at this stage, which can be an unforgettable and emotional moment, especially for the intended parents.

More Frequent Than Usual

Compared to a traditional pregnancy, surrogates often have more ultrasounds in the early stages. These extra appointments are designed to closely monitor progress and ensure everything is on track. Once the pregnancy is confirmed and stable, your care typically shifts from the fertility clinic to an OB, and the experience begins to feel more like a typical pregnancy.

Sharing the Experience With Intended Parents

For intended parents, ultrasounds are a chance to feel closer to their baby. If they live nearby, they may attend in person. If not, you might be asked to video call them during the appointment or share photos and updates afterward. In many ways, you become their eyes and ears, helping them stay emotionally connected to their growing little one.

Each Scan Marks a Milestone

Every ultrasound captures part of the story: from seeing tiny movements to tracking growth milestones. These moments bring reassurance, joy, and a deeper sense of progress for everyone involved.

Are Ultrasounds Safe?

Yes—ultrasounds are safe for both the surrogate and the baby. Still, they should always be performed by trained medical professionals and only when recommended by your OB.

For surrogates, ultrasounds are more than just medical check-ins. They’re reminders of the life you’re helping to nurture and the family you’re helping to build. What may feel routine to you can be magical and unforgettable to the intended parents.

If you’d like to learn more about the surrogacy process or what to expect as a surrogate, reach out to Inclusive Surrogacy.